Quote: I'm realizing that by waiting for him to make the move and call all the time, I am giving him the impression that he has all the power and I have to crouch around and wait and hope for the crusts of bread he deigns to toss down.
Awesome realization!
Quote: Learning the hard way,
Yep, I'm afraid that's the glue that binds all of us together and got us here in the first place!
Great job!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
