Thank you, Christian (welcome!), Anne, GBO. Slowly, thanks for the reality check. I was thinking just this morning that I have gone the pursuer route again, just a little, but enough to cause friction. I need to back off, take stock, and get back to my regularly scheduled program of SABs.
Now what were those, again?
I drove S. to the airport today - have to cram in some taking stock and GAL before he gets back on Friday. Tonight is a night at H2H's - boy am I looking forward to some good female DB company!! It is a blessing to have someone so close and so wonderful to share stories, commiserate, and just plain old hang out with, who knows SO much about what I'm going through.