Hi Jennifer - Oh I know that shaky am-I-doing-the-right-thing feeling soooo well Looking back now, it was usually just before yet another dbing penny dropped, and I detached a bit more, GAL a bit more, and NG moved closer. Sounds perfectly normal, including the 'time away from own thread'.

Taking stock is really good, and especially if you can have a sleep over with a fellow dber What bliss...

This is part of the process, you are shedding some weight. Slowly

A Liberal Allowance of Time