Quote: He is annoyed that I want to take my table (for no reason - it's no skin off his nose), he's been giving me excuses for why I shouldn't bring it for days now
Well - clearly he has SOME reason why he doesn't want you to bring it. Maybe he doesn't want your attention distracted from him by this project? maybe he's afraid it will be messy and mess up his VT. place? Maybe he doesn't like the stupid table and thinks it's ugly? Maybe he's actually taking you to the Bahamas for a surprise and it won't fit on the plane? (okay - I admit my imagination ran a little wild with that one ).
Whatever the reason - he's probably thinking YOU'RE being rigid because you keep insisting on bringing the table !!!
As for there not being anything else bothering you -
Quote: I read an e-mail from S. to his female friend (not Swiss Miss) in Switz that his "love life was a mess, as always." Not only that, but he didn't mention me, and this woman doesn't know we're back together. She knows Swiss Miss, and I'm wondering if he isn't telling her about me because he doesn't want her to tell SM.
I don't know, if it was me, this would probably be subconsciously eating away at me and causing me to Act As If my H were a jerk - which, of course, always triggers them to behave like jerks! (I think it has something to do with string theory ).