Oh, I wasn't whacking - precisely because everything I wrote to you applies equally to me. I can "Yes, BUT..." with the best of them.
Having recently had a similar atypical event (SO's trip to the city), I also plunged headlong for the day into doom & gloom and sadness. In the end, I left it alone and no 'damage' seems to have been done. It does take work to constantly focus on the positive and all but ignore the negatives.
Hmmm, let me see here - rumaging around that journal of mine for handy quotes for the day:
* If we want the truth from our partners, we must make it safe for them to tell it
* People who don't talk to us are people who don't expect us to listen
* Remember to communicate in a positive way, as negative thoughts can not possibly manifest positive deeds.
Quote: Don't know if I can lay off the snooping. When Swiss Miss knows he loves me is when I'll feel more comfortable not snooping. C'mon, H2H, you know how it is.
Oh yeah, I know . . . One question, who cares what Swiss Miss knows or doesn't know? I understand your point here - just trying to steer you into focusing you on YOUR R, not some lass living on another continent...
