OK. Whack taken. But in my defense, he has used that card to call OW, and only OW, for the last 8 months. It was HIGHLY unusual for him to use it to call domestically, because his cel. phone plan has free LD. But yes, I was quick to ASSume.
One thing I can be a little tiny bit proud of is that during the time not knowing who he called, I thought about "what if it was OW," and decided that yes, maybe he was calling her because things were off with us and she loomed a little in his mind. But I decided what was more likely was that either she called and he called her back, or he called her after having received an e-mail a few days ago from a mutual friend. (He and OW haven't spoken in 2 months, remember, and she doesn't even know I'm back in the picture, and the last time they talked it was for 2 hours and they "caught up," so I am assuming they hung up on good terms. So why *wouldn't* she call again? It seems perfectly natural to me, though when it happens, I will no doubt feel very anxious about it.) And I decided that I would wait for him to tell me (our agreement), and hear him out, and not flip out.
So back to the drawing board (for the third time this week?!). You're right, though, they are "smallish" events.
Don't know if I can lay off the snooping. When Swiss Miss knows he loves me is when I'll feel more comfortable not snooping. C'mon, H2H, you know how it is.
