Is that where you don't orgasm and the event is just for your H?
I am just curious; I think that I have a different definition of that term. I would use it literally--to define sex that is fast and without foreplay. Preferably standing up, leaning over the kitchen counter...ah, but I digress!!
Yes, that is how I define a 'quickie.' But it wasn't just for him... I wanted it, too. So I'd go more with your definition than implying that sex was just for his gratification. I wanted to skip the base running and go straight for home.
Quote: And can I ask you one more thing: Why would you suggest this form of sex, if you were meaning sex that does not include an O for you? Does it normally take a long time to O, or just when you have a problem such as the one you were mulling over in your brain? Is it that you can't concentrate...or fully feel sexual...while problems are brewing in the noggin?
It takes me a long time to O when my noggin is full of garbage and I can't detach from it, and quite honestly, I just didn't want to take the time to work for it...I was in the frame of mind that I'd have to think about it too much, if that makes any sense, and there just wasn't any room in my head for it to fit. I guess I kind of understand now what MoJo meant when she said, "I just sometimes want to fcuk." That's really all I wanted to do... didn't really give a hoot about the O... just wanted it down and dirty, rough and hard and fast.
Quote: I'm not so sure that the gulf between the people is as severe as what is first believed. If that makes any sense, lol. I think that the relational dynamics make the gulf SEEM wider than it actually is. But there is probably a gulf to begin with..just like with other personality characteristics. My H is HD when it comes to having a clean house. Think 'bounce a quarter off your mattress' type clean. Me..as long as the clutter is put away and counters clean and beds made, I'm okay with it.
