Is that where you don't orgasm and the event is just for your H?
I am just curious; I think that I have a different definition of that term. I would use it literally--to define sex that is fast and without foreplay. Preferably standing up, leaning over the kitchen counter...ah, but I digress!!
And can I ask you one more thing: Why would you suggest this form of sex, if you were meaning sex that does not include an O for you? Does it normally take a long time to O, or just when you have a problem such as the one you were mulling over in your brain? Is it that you can't concentrate...or fully feel sexual...while problems are brewing in the noggin?
Btw, I agree and don't agree with your last statement. I do think there are LD and HD people. For instance my HD has a lot to do with my marital dynamics as you noted, but I am certain I was HD as soon as I hit puberty. And I have been that way in every R since. However, I'm not so sure that the gulf between the people is as severe as what is first believed. If that makes any sense, lol. I think that the relational dynamics make the gulf SEEM wider than it actually is. But there is probably a gulf to begin with..just like with other personality characteristics. My H is HD when it comes to having a clean house. Think 'bounce a quarter off your mattress' type clean. Me..as long as the clutter is put away and counters clean and beds made, I'm okay with it.
Oh and thanks for the congrats on Little Honey. She is a beauty and so SWEET I can't even describe it. Definitely the best kid we've produced so far. LOL Our older kids were fighting with each other yesterday and H (who was holding the babe) said sweetly to her, "You're the only one I like.." haaa haaa.
