I have included a link to an website that has info and lots of other links. I have only begun to read some of this info. I have often thought that most of these LD women want to be companions and nothing more. Unfortunately, this website indictes that this is exactly what asexuals want, the want a relationship that is based on friendship, companionship, or partnership. Unfortunately for us HD's, this website seems to indicate that anything that can be done with sex can also be accomplished WITHOUT sex for an asexual person. So we are married to women who do not seek to be lovers, while us HD's usually have this as our primary goal in life. It seems to me that us HD's are living life on a level that LD's can never get to. I know that for myself that my primary goal in life is to be lovers with someone. My wife on the other hand does not make this her goal, probably because she thinks she can not achieve the ability to be lovers. Is it possible to be lovers without desiring sex? If so I would love to know how. From what LD's describe, their ideal relationship is really one of companionship. Unfortuantely, you don't need marriage for this. It's kind of like when you were young and first dating and your girlfriend dumps you and says, let's just be friends. Yea, right, this is my goal in life, to be friends. This is pretty much what LD women act towards their husbands 24/7.
