The wife of the attorney I spoke with is studying to be a marriage counselor and I asked her this morning if she could recommend someone.

She is also her H's receptionist on Mondays and Wednesdays. Seems really nice. She gave me the name of a counseling service that she would recommend and they have therapists with different levels of degrees working there it appears from their web site. I do know S said I need to see a psychologist since I am dealing with the medication.
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Would it help to get off your chest what happened?


Not yet, possibly eventually. Did you receive the e-mail I sent over the weekend? My e-mail has been really flaky lately.

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Also...and I'm not trying to minimize your sense of "finality" but there's a lot of time between NOW and FOREVER...it may well be that there will be room in both of your lives for contact...or there may NOT be...but it will be your choice as well as his, I suspect. We've all been in situations where we thought an R couldn't survive in any way shape or form a blowup but they often do.


This time I think I managed to kill it totally!

It appears at the present time and into the future as B sees it our paths are separated by a goodly margin, where previously there was not an absence of one of us from the others lives. D took a totally unexpected path, whatever it was and it looks very chaotic and very dark ahead for him. He is now starting up many paths and appears to have no purpose or reason guiding him.

I actually feel sadness hearing that, NOW if that was J maybe I would feel glad!

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That being said...my two cents it that turning your attention to YOUR future is a great place for you to put your energies.

The problem for me is how to figure out how to do that?

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"