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Hi Pam - I know what you mean about great folks here giving awesome advise and help - we are blessed, aren't we?

We really are. I am talking a bit with a lady who is going through pretty much the same sitch. Her H is having an affair with her long term friend.

She said she is pretty numb right now but that it helps to have me to talk too and I know what she means as I'm not sure she really has anyone else that sort of understands what she is going through.

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Its a process, alright

That it certainly is and a SLOOOOW ONE!

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"