Coming from someone that this is happening to I am glad to see that you actually wrote. It is actually nice to see the other side. My husband wont talk about it (wont end it either) yet wont walk away from our relationship. My mind is always trying to figure out what happened. You need to sit down with you H and tell him about your feelings about not feeling desired. He might not be aware that he is even doing that. Not everyone is a mind reader and all relationships need communication. Talk to him. I wish my H would talk to me and give me some kind of clue as to why.