Your H does not want to lose the family. And you are part of it. On the other hand, he does not want to let go the ow also. Difficut decision for him too.
I can't suggest what you should do. You have to make a decision that you are comfortable with. It is your life.
Last night my W picked up the kids and took them out for dinner. Last time was 2 months ago. I don't know why she does not contact the kids more often. I told my D to tell my W, that her brother is having liver cancer. The docter recommended for a transplant. Her sister asked me to tell my W to have a check up on her liver as well. Just a precausion. I asked my D to convey the message. It is strange that my W did not want to communicate to her own family. Guilt feeling? I don't know.
