Glad to hear from you again. I don't know what is in your H's mind. You just keep doing DB until the D is final. If he is not violent, of course you can be with him alone. But you know him better than anyone else. Avoid being alone with him if he could be violent to you.
Last week the om's W called me at home. She mentioned that the om went to declare their assets and lied about my W's income. Because the om's W is asking for maintenance from him (she has very low income). I am surprised that the om dares to lie and made a false statement to his L. But it is not my problem.
I am OK. Moving on with my life. I start learning ballroom dancing. Just to find a new hobby. Get away from routine housework. It is fun.
