Wish, I second sadjen! I was/am in the same boat and with a military man and I did almost exactly as sadjen did and, I'm happy to say that he is back and has never been more attentive. Believe me, they have to MISS you before they can miss you! I think after what you've learned these past few days, he's about to feel what it's like to miss you now. But, act like sadjen and I did and I have a feeling the results will be so different and so much better! Like she said, try it! You've got nothing to lose at this point.
While my H was gone and before he came back, I too found out alot of things that he lied about and denied and I never brought them up to him and he never had a clue how much I knew. Poor man! To think that I'm unresouceful! That was just dumb on his part! LOL! This isn't/wasn't my first rodeo!
Anyway, maybe you don't want to bring up to him what you have just learned. Wait and sit on it a bit. You will get the right time and the right opportunity to bring it up and the results will be better at a better time!
