Wishing, I don't have any advice on how you want to handle OW and her H, but I will say be very careful from here on out. In my state, and in many others, once you file for D on adultry grounds, I can almost assure you if H contests it, his lawyer will ask if the two of you have had relations since your knowledge of the affair and filing for D. I don't know if your state has such laws, but check with your counsel...in Louisiana, that makes a big difference in the outcome. A judge will consider that to be some sort of reconcilation and throw the adultry suit out...hence, you will have to start all over again. I personally know of one instance of this happening and I work with an attorney that handles divorce law. So just be careful how you handle this whole thing...very touchy indeed. Good luck.
