Does your H speak to any mutual friends about OW and the situation? Could you nonchalantly ask them if OW is getting divorced?

I was watching some show on TV, they were discussing Ellen Degeneres and her new girlfriend and the fact that the previous gf was suing Portia DeRossi for, what was it, Alienation of Affection. Meaning that the new GF is being sued by the old GF for stealing her mate. Some old law on the books, not used very often. Can you imagine sueing OW for stealing your hubby? Sounds like fun, if you had money for that sort of thing. That would get ow's husband's attention. Not very practical I suppose.

A PI could check the courthouse records. They wouldn't have been published in the local newspaper would they? That might be online somewhere.

Hey, just look up on the web for a listing for a family lawyer in Georgia. Call and ask if Adultery has any bearing on Divorce in their state. That would be easy enough.

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