I wonder sometimes if it's just habit for them to say and do the things they do. My H talks about where we would like to live next, what our next house will be like (more storage, bigger garage). But still he comes and goes, calls, doesn't call, whatever. He can't make plans for today, but he can think about next month, next house. Maybe because it's so far off, not real, hmmm.

I'm getting off track. I don't know why they do, but they just do think differently than us. Think about this, it's wrong for them to be having an affair and they do it. It's not right to sleep with your x when you have a new girlfriend, and they want to do that too. They're just messed up.

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