Hey, Wishing, I have been watching your story unfold and am thinking about you too. Your H. sounds like one confused man. Bet he's wondering why that compartmentalizing stuff didn't work out for him.

I am firmly with YOU. Self respect is worth it. I told my H during my recent temper tantrum that I loved him dearly but that didn't mean I had to stay and take his crumbs. I must say he acted totally shocked, although he still told me some lies. I am hoping that my little hissy fit will start to make him think along different lines. Like, wow, I could lose everything....

Sorry to hijack your story, but it looks so much like mine that I am begining to wonder if they read the same book....

Ellen -- Still Growing

My story -- I want more.