I signed the D papers tonight and put into motion a counter suit on grounds of adultery. I thought I would feel something when I signed, but never thought that feeling would be one of relief. The show is now in motion....and back in H's court.
For financial reasons I have asked the L to drag his feet on the filing, so H won't get the paper work until mid Jan. A couple of weeks after that H will have to testify under oath about his A. L is also throwing in questions about H's finances. I did ask for a copy of what questions will be asked of H.....L said I could request more questions if I wanted, or even delete some.
I hadn't talked to H since he left Sun. morning, but as I was pulling away from L's H called my cell. What timing! I just told him I was late leaving the city and headed home. He called because FedEx was unable to leave a package at the house that was addressed to me so had taken it to H's office. H was sure curious about it so I told him to open it....since I was positive it was Christmas presents for the kids.
H sounded so lost on the phone....we had a pleasant 10 min. conversation, and it was nice. However, I kept getting the feeling that H wanted to say something but just couldn't get it out. I finally told him I would talk to him later and hung up.
I think H just wanted to talk.....and the package was only an excuse (I found from son that H had called home and told him about the package before calling my cell).
Oh well, right now I think H is being so nice because he doesn't want to rock the boat before the Holidays. And I am falling for the kindness. But, like I told the L, I am a mom at heart and really don't plan on talking to the kids til after Christmas.
