I haven't heard from H since he left Sun. monrning. I never really expected to, but he could at least call S15 once in awhile.
I had a disturbing conversation with D18 who is away at college. She is furious that we have not told son that H has moved out. Apparently she had talked to son last night and he still thinks things are OK between H and I. I don't know why I am putting off telling him....maybe it is because he starts finals on Fri. or maybe it is because of the holidays, or maybe it is because I just have not quite given up all hope of H getting his act together.
Tomorrow I have an appt. with L to counterfile on adultery charges. Even though H file wanting joint custody of son,I am toying with the idea of asking for sole custody. At least that would give me the option of moving out of state to get a better paying job. I will see what L advises.
I have been working on getting papers/numbers together to figure out expenses and assets. What a pain in the behind!!! It just doesn't seem right that H wants this D, yet I am the one who doing the crappy work.
A few prayers sent my way would be wonderful. This whole thing just absolutely, positively stinks!!!
