Wishing, glad your weekend went well. I think that as long as you don't have a problem spending time with H when he is involved with OW, that is fine. We all have our boundries, and you certainly know what your can and will be. The only thing I will say about your confusion about H is this...there are people in the world who want to hang onto a M...the comfie feeling, family time, etc., and have the other also. I think if you can be friends with him without expecting anything else, then all the better. Some can, others cannot...it all depends on how you want to handle the sitch. I do hope that you are getting out or plan on it in the future...do you have friends you do things with? I know it is hard with kids, but I for one would like for H to see you living your life just as he is. I know in time, this will come more easily...and don't have too many hot meals waiting for H...he'll be at your doorstep every night when you might have OTHER plans LOL.
