I am proud of you to say what you need to say. Only you know what is your limit. Nobody else can.
I have been thinking hard and long about my W. If her heart has nothing left for me, what for I am holding her back. If she showed remorse, I would fight hard to win her back. But she did not. So I let her go and move on with my life. I don't want her to have the om and me as well as her financial security. I am glad that I don't suffer the pain of having a cheating wife anymore.
I hope that your H accept your boundary and shows remorse. pray to God to bless you with peace.
