It is good that you enjoyed the trip with your kids. It is hard to have a spouse in limbo. I am over that now and rebuilding my life. Just make sure you keep your kids together and enjoy activities with them together. If your H does not want to participate, go ahead without him.
Now my W has moved out, I don't need to tell her where I go for holiday. We have our own life to lead. If she is happy with her life, it is fine, if not, it is her problem. I am just doing my own enjoyable activities. In this Christmas, I am going to Europe with my 2 kids as planned.
