strange things your h is up to eh? sounds a bit familiar to me...oh the things my h did for me while he was walking out the door (or actually while he had already moved out). Putting in new faucets, suggesting getting a pool and central ac for the kids and me, giving me cash etc. at first I sat and thought wtf does this all mean? why is he being extra nice and thoughtful when he's leaving? then I sat back and said to myself..duh! regardless of what he's saying or what direction he seems to be heading in I matter to him.
I know it's not an easy position to be in...don't give up hope but find a way to be comfortable and accept the choices he makes...in the end if he's allowed the choice he may find he doesn't want what he thinks.
