Jenny wrote: -------------- I'm actually in a very good place in our relationship this morning because we had a long talk last night about how we really need to change a lot of the patterns in our relationship...... --------------
This is good news. I also really like the idea of rearranging the furniture to discourage old habits.
I also agree with HP and IHJ. You will probably have to revisit the issues raised by disrespect a number of times before you find peace with it.
Please do remember that he likely wants to get past the damage he has done as well, probably more quickly than you are able to.
I like your guy. He is definitely sounding born again, hard.
Watch out ladies! There is a real man at Jenny's house!
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
