Quote: I think you should get your fat girlssss revenge by telling your H that, in light of your newly toned body, you would appreciate it if he'd drag his skinny arse to the gym and tone up himself.
LOL. My H was as skinny as a POW when we married, so I don't really have any complaints about how he looks now. I do think he looks sexier when he grows his sideburns out Easy Rider style but I don't think growing hair is a fair trade for losing weight (LOL). I do wish he would exercise because I think it would improve his overall mood if not his physique.
To give him credit, I actually do think he would freak out if he gained too much weight himself. I'm more happy-go-lucky about my body image than he is because he cares more about what other people think and I am so absent-minded that I don't pay much attention to what I look like much of the time. Since my sex drive is largely fantasy driven, I am pretty unpicky about what my sexual partner looks like. It's actually kind of a waste that my H is good-looking. All I need is someone clean and erect with a bit of arm muscle and my imagination will do the rest. For instance, when I had a lover who was 8 inches shorter than me, I just thought of him as my Welsh pony( Not literally, I didn't imagine that he was a pony(LOL). Coming up with an attractive nickname for him made him attractive to me).
Since my #1 visual turn-on is a hard-on under denim, the best trade-off for losing weight for me would be for him to frequently get aroused and increase the ratio of jeans to Dockers in his wardrobe. .
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
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