Fat Girl's Revenge

[MJontheMend]

think your resentment is a little misplaced. I think you should be pissed at his RUDENESS not the fact that he was not turned on by your figure.

I am pissed off at his rudeness not the fact that he doesn't dig full-figured women.

I'll bet if you were to convey your fears about wrinkles to him, he'd laugh and say he won't care at all about that. What do you think?

I did convey my fears about wrinkles and his reply was "I don't know. How am I supposed to answer a question like that?"

But he really should be told in no uncertain terms that there will be no tolerance for that kind of behavior in the future--those days of Jenny being the whipping girl for MW's crappy behavior are OVER.

I have told him this and he knows that I mean it. The problem is I have a hard time letting go of grudges once I develop them. I RARELY develop them so when I do they run deep. It's not fair for me to keep holding this grudge, but I don't know how to get over it. I suppose I should go shop Amazon for the Grudge-Busters book.