Quote: Spooning, to us, is mostly just a snuggle position. I always try to get my goods smack dab against his (so much for being mysterious once in a while, eh!) and welcome anything that happens from there. Most of the time it is just more snuggling and that is ok with me. I love the feeling of his body close to mine and that is why I encourage it. That is why he does it also.
My bf and I fall asleep spooned, full naked body contact (including the squeezy bits) every night. This does NOT produce desire, arousal, or an erection in him. Even if I wiggle my a$$ against his stuff-- no reaction. He's very cuddly, but that's all (and it's very nice, don't get me wrong).
Paul, I'm confused about something... your W lets you snuggle up behind her and get yourself off (and she knows it)? She comes to bed wearing pearls? But if you try to touch her, she literally kicks and punches you? What did I miss?
