Okay, here are Hairdog's thoughts on spooning. I love it. Seeing as it's basically a rotated 90 degree turn from my favorite sexual position (hairdoggie-style), it really turns me on. HOWEVER, my W doesn't normally like to feel me "tapping" her from behind, so I must practice the "modified" spoon, which does not allow my "unit" to come into contact with her. I'd like to say that this keeps me at greater-than-arms-length distance from her, (ha ha), but it basically just means I have to back off about 6 inches or so.
I think it's great that your W let you "pleasure" yourself back there...here's a naive question for you: did you *ahem* "finish" the pleasure? Or was it just a bit of friction, etc? A few times, my W actually got in the mood when I was doing this and we finished off with me inside her from behind, which is almost as good as hairdoggin' it.
*Sigh*
Man, you know the time of day that works for her...now you just have to get those kids to sleep in their own rooms, or maybe just be very very quiet.