We use our insurance...why would you care if the insurance co or your work benefits people know that you are seeking out help. It's been my experience anyway that when our insurance company processes a bill from my H's therapist it simply says Dr. *******, not Dr. *******, Psychologist.
Besides that there is the HIPPA law that everyone has to consider and abide by.
Put your marriage first, don't worry about appearances on this.
