(I don't know how to reply to more than one person at a time and have the text to refer to, hence the multiple responses.) Several people pointed out that her behavior reminded them of one who had been wounded in some way. Another thing that I should point out is that she used to hit me a lot in bed. Since I was raised to never hit a lady, I took it until it was too much to bear, and for a while I refused to sleep with her. If I touch her in the bed, she still beats and kicks for all she's worth.
