Some of this stuff is pretty personal (no joke! ), and frankly, it's a lot easier to discuss with "strangers" than it is with people we know. My bf looks and acts like such a stud-- he fairly radiates masculinity-- my friends would be shocked (and I would be mortifid) if they knew we've only had sex a few times in the last six months. I'm sure they think we're two love bunnies. I so appreciate everyone's honesty and willingness to share in the safe anonymity of this board.