Quote: I'm just wondering if some of you are really looking for solutions and trying to change yourselves, as Michelle and and DB website talks about. Or if this is just a forum to tell about all the horrible stuff your spouse does (not that it isn't true or doesn't hurt).
I believe it's a bit of both.
Please don't take this the wrong way, because it isn't meant mean - but a good general rule of thumb when entering any community or group, is to share about your *own* life or deal specifically with someone else's posts. It seldom goes over well to enter any community and in general terms tell the community that you think they're doing it all wrong.
