I am sorry for taking space with this thread. I absolutely agree with you that there are some TERRIFIC items on these boards!!!!! I agree that many posters are looking for solutions!!!!! It has been a real encouragement and help to me.
I've used a DB coach who is wonderful.
I'd basically like to post my first comment here to every thread. Because there are many threads that everyone jumps on the negative band wagon...and that seems to be their only reason here! That may not even be the majority.
But many do the exact opposite of the DB tech. and can only be serving to hurt marriages by spending so much time talking like that.
