Quote: I'm just wondering if some of you are really looking for solutions and trying to change yourselves, as Michelle and and DB website talks about. Or if this is just a forum to tell about all the horrible stuff your spouse does (not that it isn't true or doesn't hurt).
Dear Nice,
I can tell you haven't read this bored too much. If you had, as I have, you would find it loaded with fixers. We've read Michelle's books, we've read Schnarch's books, we've read every marital self help book you can find. In fact we are thinking of forming our own collective used marital self help book e-commerce site . We've done more 180s than a Whirling Dervish.
Many of us are, were, or will be in personal or marital counseling. Many of us have considered pulling the plug, but are desparately working on making our existing marriages work, in spite of many of our spouses inconsistent interest in doing the same.
So please keep reading and learning about us and our stories Nicegall, and maybe you'll get a fuller picture of who we are.
The Solid Mechanic
P.S. Sorry if you feel flamed, but I have a mild "big brother" protective streak .
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau
. We've done more 180s than a Whirling Dervish.
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