Certainly the board helps us vent some. On the other hand, as good as Michelle's books and others are, they cannot and should not be used as bibles. Reading needs to be done by rational beings. And the suggestions in books must also be rational. But there come times in life and in marriage when a rational response is not warranted. The hurt is just too deep.
Part of the change I want to make is to stand up for myself more. I want to win this.