I've only posted a few times. But I have read many of the threads of a lot of people here have written...as well as many more.
I just picked posting here....so this is both general and specific.
I've done some of the telephone coaching from DB as well as read Michelle's stuff. But when I read what some people write here and other places...it doesn't sound like many of you read her stuff.
One person who turned her marriage around recommended that more time be spent reading the things from Michelle's book than posting. To keep on a postive track.
I'm just wondering if some of you are really looking for solutions and trying to change yourselves, as Michelle and and DB website talks about. Or if this is just a forum to tell about all the horrible stuff your spouse does (not that it isn't true or doesn't hurt).