Quote: Sometimes walking out does nothing to wake them up at all. They just deny that they are part of the problems and refuse to try to change things to make the marriage work. Be prepared for this type of reaction, too.
This is unfortunate, but the kind of reaction I would expect from my W . . . at least for a while. Just remember Paul: your request that your wife sleep in the same bed with you (and, ultimately ML with you) is EMINENTLY REASONABLE. You are not asking her to don rubber pants or a leather facemask.
If I were in the same city as you, I would definitely let you crash at my place, buddy.