Quote: I haven't read DB books, primarily because at this time I don't think there is a D to B. The idea to keep my cool primatily comes from "Passionate Marriage" and common sense. On the other hand, if I just continue to accept W's insensitive remarks, I'll start to boil inside and she will think there is nothing wrong with what she is doing. I am going to initiate friction, but it will be at a time I select.
I asked her to sleep with me tonight, as it has been a week. I expect her to do it.
I am gonna call you on this approach you are taking. It seems to me that you appear to avoid taking responsibility for your part in this and placing the BURDEN on your W. "I asked her to sleep with me tonight. I expect her to do it." This sounds like a bad episode of "The Honeymooners".
It is strongly encouraged that you buy The Divorce Remedy book (if you haven't done so yet). Michele has given ALL of us very valuable tools to successfully get your M back on track and maintain the love in it.
