Dear Liz,

Don't worry about me receiving bad advice. I may be walking on eggshells, but I'm not made of them.

I haven't read DB books, primarily because at this time I don't think there is a D to B. The idea to keep my cool primatily comes from "Passionate Marriage" and common sense. On the other hand, if I just continue to accept W's insensitive remarks, I'll start to boil inside and she will think there is nothing wrong with what she is doing. I am going to initiate friction, but it will be at a time I select.

I asked her to sleep with me tonight, as it has been a week. I expect her to do it.

Paul