Quote: We had tenth anniversary last month and there were no fireworks here either.
I mention the real estate transactions to emphasize that I think my W considers me as a business partner first. I for one have had it with that.
At least you know what she thinks of you. I think my H thinks of me as his mother, who does his laundry and cleans his house. Who would want to have sex with their mother? At least *sometimes* business partners get together!
Okay...all joking aside...I am really sorry for your sitch and I hope I didn't inflame anything with my above rant. I understand things are different in other cultures, but I also think sometimes people use that as a crutch. My H is pure American but he also has his crutches. It is all just a way of avoiding intimacy.
BTW, I had a Japanese exchange student roommate in college and she was a sex fiend. Every few weeks it was a different guy. Then again, maybe now that she's married and has kids things are different. Who knows!
