I agree with Honeypot! We shouldn't have to cower about the horrific act of sleeping with (or GOD FORBID) ML'ing with our spouses. This whole thing is just making me pissy. We tiptoe, we walk on eggshells, we come up with elaborate plans to get them to desire us...and all we end up doing is feeling bad about our marriages and ourselves.
I know I'm not helping...just venting...but SHEESH what is with these people (my LDH included)?! Man we HD'ers are just so incredibly evil and terrible for our unreasonable wants and needs, aren't we?!
Heavyheart (who admits she is still feeling pissy about not getting any anniversary sex)