Paul,
How did you respond when she said that?

I think I would have blasted her if she were my spouse. I know that might not be the right way to handle it but DANG that is just utterly ridiculous to think that it is at all acceptable to say to your HUSBAND, "We just slept together the other day."

What, do people in Japan not sleep together as a married couple?
I mean, where is she getting this idea that this is normal?

How in the world can you establish any sense of intimacy, let alone sex, in your marriage without intimate physical contact?

HP