I hear you, Paul. Don't you love it when they equate ML with suffering?

I tend to think you should have let your W sink or swim on her own on this real estate deal. Sounds like you picked up the bulk of the work.

One last piece of advice: don't make sex a quid pro quo. Yes, she should appreciate you. No, she shouldn't pay you in sex, because that devalues it.

Hairdog