As I'm locked out of my "kids sleeping in our bed" thread, I'm starting a new one; by the way, they are still sleeping there.
I just got back from a nasty closing on an investment property that she wanted to buy. At this closing, I was accused by my own lawyer of attempting to commit fraud, only to have him find some more papers in the stack and say, "Never Mind." W has been nit picking over details while I have been doing the grunt work to make the deal happen and avoid being scr?wed.
Does she appreciate this? He!! no!!! On the way home from the closing, I mentioned to her that I want to sleep with her more often (we had slept together the night before) and she said, "I suffered enough last night." Why should I bother talking to such a person?
I do things for her because she wants me to do them and because I want to make her happy. I don't call mortgage brokers and agents for my health. In fact it is certainly detrimental to my health. Why can't she do something just because I want it?
I propose the following dialogue:
Me: You know, we both worked very hard to purchase that house. Even though it was you who wanted it, I helped you out because that's what loving spouses do. Now there is something I want. I want to sleep with you and to love you....
