Lost- Molliew is right. Keep reminding yourself he is home with you. My H came home July 1 after six months seperated and A with OW he works with. He still works with her and it bothers me but I keep reminding myself he leaves that office every night at 5pm and comes home to me. Things do get better and have been for us but just last night we had a back slide. H christmas party this year includes spouses. While H did not come out and say it he wants to go but is uncomfortable bringing me. Aint no way hes going without me , though I didnt say it just that way. What bothers me is that OW doesnt have a spouse or signifiant other so if H says we are going chances are she is not going to go and H even admitted that. Problem is H doesnt want to do that to OW and thats what I am having issue with. We fought last night and were quiet and business like this am. I sent him email and said that today I feel like we are never going to get this behind us . H emails back.. we make such progress and then seem to hit a wall, I dont know what to do.... I didnt respond. Its clear to me that as long as he is working with her she is going to be a part of his life and we are never fully going to get this behind us. There will be the summer picnic and other events. i am very discouraged today.
