molliew Yes let her be the past and just put our eyes forward on our future that looks bigger and better as each day goes by!! To let you know we still are not wearing our rings either but I have "hinted" that I want to and have said to him when he said he will give them to me when he is ready is he not 100% sure about M or himself about being here or afraid to show that commitment to the world to that said that he said he has no doubts about his commitment to me or our M but that he needs to fix things for himself first i.e. therapy on his own but who knows maybe xmas I will get them back OR maybe a new one!!!!! But I do want to wear them so bad you know to show the world!!!