Well guess who called H yesterday....the exOW. It was the first thing he told me when he got home from work and I didnt panic or anything I just said oh really what was that about. And he said she wanted to tell him about her D that when she fell off of H's 4 wheeler and hurt her leg she said it hadnt gotten better and took her to the doc and she has some sort of cyst that they have to put her in surgery to remove it and that she just wanted to call and tell him about it. He told her he was sorry to hear that and that hope everything is ok. She wanted to know how things were going with he and I and he said really good and he said there was a big pause and then she asked if he was working and said yep got a job 2nd day I got back home. He asked how she was she said ok she asked him the same and he said doing really good then he said she started getting snippy and he said well I have to go take care and hope everything turns out ok with D. I asked him how he felt about talking to her and he said when he saw her # come up he was like oh crap what does she want and I asked how did you feel when you were talking to her and he said like I was talking to an aquaintance and that was all that he didnt have one bit of old feelings while talking to her that he was hoping it wouldnt be a long conversation and that especially when she was actually trying to start an argument with me I was like yeah whatever. I didnt get upset we just talked about it and I let him talk. Later he said to me that OW was the type that she never wanted to listen to what you had to say she had to be the one speaking that she never listens to you and I said yeah kinda like how I used to be (which I was honestly) and he said yeah but you know since I have been back you have really listened to me and you dont just jump into an argument you let me talk about what I want to say and I said yeah thats something I knew I needed to change about myself and to be honest I really love how our way of talking to each other has really changed and he said yeah me to. We got to talking about life in general and one thing I said to him was that we let life dictate us i.e. materialistic nature, keeping up with the jones attitude and we lost track of each other and forgot to keep our R stronger and believe me I didnt realize what I had till I lost it and he said yeah me neither I didnt realize what a great family and wonderful wife I had till I almost lost it too. How ironic that I also bought him a really sweet card about the day I met him is the day I fell in love forever with a little note about how lucky we are to have this 2nd chance and thanked him for being so patient and understanding. He came out after reading it gave me a huge hug and said I love you so much! We ML and it just seemed sooo intimate and loving like he was really wearing his heart on the outside of his chest and showing it to me! Almost glad she called him made him maybe realize that yeap no feelings for her and cant wait to get him to W!!! LostInFl
