Sunshine Of course I was worried that when/if H introduced OW to his family would they be like uh yeah we see why you left. But fortunatly his family was very supportive of my and our M that even his sister said even if H wanted to introduce OW to them she planned on flat out refusing to do so. Luckily H came around and got his senses back before that happened. I did try and put my self into my H's shoes in how he was feeling emotionally I had the time to really sit down and evaluate myself and how I treated him in the past year and honestly I can see now why he started feeling the way he was, and my personality type he probably did try and talk to me about it but I was so wrapped up in trying to get pg that I probably wouldnt have heard him unless he grabbed me and screamed in my face we need to talk!!! My H said the same thing about wanting to be with someone he loves and that lifes to short to live it not happy and to be honest he will continue saying those things until he takes the time to really think about what he is saying and doing like my H did. From your post you didnt say if you were still seperated or are back together. If your seperated plan on your H not telling you anything about how he is truly feeling because honestly he probably doesnt even know either. If you are back together I would strongly recommend C and maybe your H do some individual C to make him understand how he was/is feeling. Hope this helps! LostInFl
